6. Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it. (Ferris Bueller's Day Off)

6.人生太匆匆。你若不偶爾停下來(lái)看看周圍，就會(huì)錯(cuò)過(guò)很多風(fēng)景！電影《春天不是讀書天》（Ferris Bueller's Day）

When I was driving my oldest son to school this morning, he made a remark about how I "always" make a big deal out of his mistakes and bad choices at school and, he feels, not enough of a big deal about the things he does well every day. He might have a point: I have high expectations, and it freaks me out a little when he strays off-path, especially now that he is getting older and the stakes are a little higher. But I do want him to break the rules sometimes. I want him to skip school every once in a blue moon, go on adventures with his friends, dance and sing Beatles songs in a parade. I admit that I can be a little uptight about school, but I want my kids to step outside the box of our days sometimes and, honestly, I need to do that more often too. Anyone know where I can find a 1961 Ferrari 250 GT California Spyder?

今天早晨，我開(kāi)車送大兒子去學(xué)校，他開(kāi)口問(wèn)我為何“總是”夸大他在學(xué)校里犯的錯(cuò)和做的錯(cuò)誤的決定，而不關(guān)注他每天取得的成績(jī)。他說(shuō)對(duì)了一點(diǎn)：我對(duì)他的期望過(guò)高，所以他一有變壞的傾向，我就神經(jīng)緊張，特別是隨著他日漸長(zhǎng)大，犯錯(cuò)付出的代價(jià)也將更大。但是有時(shí)候我也希望他能打破常規(guī)，活得自由自在。我希望他能難得翹一次課，和朋友去探一次險(xiǎn)，唱著披頭士（Beatles）的歌參加一次游行。我承認(rèn)，我很在意他在學(xué)校的表現(xiàn)，但是我也希望我的孩子們偶爾能跳出常規(guī)的生活，老實(shí)說(shuō)，我自己也需要擺脫束縛，釋放壓力。有誰(shuí)知道哪能弄到輛法拉利250 GT 1961敞篷款？